Breast is Best or Fed is Best? Our journey from hungry baby to happy toddler

Infant feeding has been on my mind a lot lately as I've been working with the NHS to provide a patient story about our experiences. With many friends and family expecting babies in the coming months, I've been thinking about how we view infant feeding as a society and the pressure and prejudices surrounding feeding choices. We had a challenging feeding journey, moving from feeling committed to breastfeeding, through a…

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The beginner’s guide to reusable nappies

If you're expecting a baby or have a young baby already, you may be thinking about using reusable nappies. It can feel intimidating making this decision. There are a lot of misconceptions around using cloth nappies and finding everything you need to know in one place is challenging. Perhaps if you're parenting with spoons (living with a long term condition) you're wondering if it's manageable. I am a spoonie parent who…

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Baby driving: buying a car seat for your new baby or toddler

Car seats can be totally confusing and it's not hard to see why. There are so many different types and so much advertising trying to convince you you're getting the right one.The reality is that car seat buying comes down to three main factors:1. Budget. You can only buy what you can afford.2. Safety. You will need to decide what your personal views are, within the boundaries of what is…

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Prams, pushchairs and buggies: the spoonie buying guide

As a parent living with long term health conditions - when pain and tiredness are involved - how you transport your baby from place to place matters. I will write at a later date about car seats, which are a minefield in themselves, and slings and carriers. Today, I'm looking at prams, pushchairs and buggies (which may all be different names for the same thing). We were seriously guided by…

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What you really need for a new baby, and how being a spoonie changes this

As the first of our friends to have a baby (at the youthful age of 30!), I have since been asked many times what you really need for a new baby. The more I reflect on it, the less I believe you really need. So here is my take on what is necessary, what is desirable and what is not needed at all, from my perspective as a spoonie parent.This…

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